It Wasn’t Just a House—It Was Yours
Now your past lives in a place you can’t return to.
Memories With No Address
It wasn’t just a house.
It was birthdays.
Arguments behind closed doors that ended with forgiveness.
The smell of dinner floating from the kitchen while someone laughed in the next room.
The creak in the stairs you learned to avoid when sneaking out late.
It was yours—
not because your name was on the deed,
but because your life was written into its bones.
Now it’s someone else’s keys.
Someone else parks in the driveway.
Moves through the rooms.
Changes the curtains.
Paints over the nicks on the doorframe
that once measured your height.
And you pretend you’re fine.
Because it’s “just a house.”
Because you’re lucky to have a roof at all.
Because grief like this is hard to explain
when nothing technically died.
But something did.
Something sacred.
A part of you that knew where it belonged.
Now your memories are squatters.
Lingering in corners no one else can see.
Whispering through walls that don’t know your name anymore.
You remember where everything was—
the light switch you had to jiggle,
the closet that stuck,
the window where you watched storms roll in like old friends.
You drive past sometimes.
Not to go back—
just to remind yourself it was real.
But it hurts.
Because the porch light is still on.
And it doesn’t mean you’re welcome anymore.
It wasn’t just a house. It was your life. And now it’s a home that belongs to everyone but you.
Still Sitting With It?
Sometimes the ache doesn’t move. It lingers. It asks for more. You don’t have to act yet. You can stay here. Feel deeper. Or follow it into something else that hurts in a different shape.
Stay in This Pain
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They offer truth.
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What you do with pain matters.
You can carry it. Or you can let it change what you still have.
Still Here?
The pain didn’t leave—but maybe you’re ready to walk with it instead of running from it.
Healing doesn’t start with answers. It starts with honesty. And you’ve already proven you can feel this deeply.
Now let’s see what living with it could look like.

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