You Kept the Ultrasound—Because It’s All You Had
They see a medical moment. You see your only hello and goodbye.
Folded, Hidden, Sacred
You kept the ultrasound photo.
Not for proof.
Not for anyone else.
But because it was them.
The first time you saw them.
The only time.
A blur of light,
a flicker that made your heart rearrange itself.
You folded it gently.
Tucked it away like a secret prayer.
Somewhere no one would find it—
not because you were ashamed,
but because you couldn’t bear
to hear them call it just a loss.
Because to you—
it was a goodbye.
That image held a future.
Not just cells,
but a soul you had already made room for.
You saw it.
You felt it.
Even if no one else did.
You were already imagining how they might laugh.
Whose eyes they’d have.
The way they’d kick at night
or curl into your chest when the world felt too loud.
You loved them instantly.
And then you lost them.
But that photo remains.
The only thing left that says:
They were here.
They mattered.
I loved them.
You don’t show it to people.
You don’t post it.
Because the world doesn’t grieve what it didn’t get to meet.
But you do.
In the quiet.
In the ache.
In the way your fingers trace the edges of that folded piece of paper
like it’s something holy.
Because it is.
They call it a loss. But you know the truth— it was a love story that ended before it could speak.
Still Sitting With It?
Sometimes the ache doesn’t move. It lingers. It asks for more. You don’t have to act yet. You can stay here. Feel deeper. Or follow it into something else that hurts in a different shape.
Stay in This Pain
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You won’t find platitudes here.
These aren’t guides or soft words—they’re raw, unfiltered reflections from the edge of real loss. If you’ve ever felt like no one understands what this actually feels like, these are for you.
Pain that lingers. Regret that echoes. Love that didn’t get its goodbye.
These stories don’t offer healing.
They offer truth.
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What you do with pain matters.
You can carry it. Or you can let it change what you still have.
🕯️ You Still Have a Body That Carries You
Grief from illness, loss of strength, or fading fertility can swallow your sense of self. But even in that hollowing, there’s something left—this body, this breath, this moment.
Cherishing your health isn’t about ignoring what’s been lost. It’s about holding what remains like it matters—because it does. The hands that still reach. The voice that still speaks. The quiet persistence of being here.
Honor what endures. Not as a distraction—but as defiance.
💝 Want to make sure no one else slips through your fingers?
Some people are still here. Still breathing. Still waiting to be loved the way you didn’t know how to before.
Don’t wait for another eulogy to say what you should’ve said yesterday.
Still Here?
The pain didn’t leave—but maybe you’re ready to walk with it instead of running from it.
Healing doesn’t start with answers. It starts with honesty. And you’ve already proven you can feel this deeply.
Now let’s see what living with it could look like.
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Not All Grief Ends in Darkness.
For some, the ache softens. For others, it sharpens what matters.
Whatever path you’re on—these journeys are here to help you make sense of it all, one honest step at a time.
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